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Dear ladies.  We understand that men are hard to put up with for a number of reasons.  This is the place where women can come to complain about their lifemates.  If you have any anger or frustration that needs to come out, you are more than welcome to contact us and post your own lifemates complaints like the women below.

Phoebe from Calgary

Insane in the Brain

My lifemate is insane.  I love him to pieces, but sometimes he’s just way too impossible.  I stay home all day with the kids while he’s at work.  I appreciate him going to work every day to support us but he won’t help with a thing when he gets home.  We fight all the time about how he refuses to wash a dish every now and then or sweep the floor.  Last week, he stormed out of the house because I asked him to fold the dry laundry.  Why are men so stubborn and stupid?  Are all men in the world like this?  Or just the lifemates from Canada?

Wendy from Hamilton

Smelly Lifemates

My ex lifemate used to go two weeks with out showering.  I used to tell him all the time how much I hated it and how bad he smelled.  Instead of listening to me and recognizing the fact that I was trying to help, he would just get insulted.  Well it was insulting for me that he didn’t respect me enough to shower and clean him self.  Did he really think I wanted a smelly person?  This was the main reason we got divorced.  I haven’t seen him since we split up two years ago but I heard from a friend who is still in contact with him that he lives in a tiny apt in Toronto with out running water.  I guess he likes being filthy.

Bonnie from Winnipeg

A Very Angry Man

My husband has a SERIOUS anger issue.  He gets way too upset over the smallest things.  When I say he has anger, I don’t mean physical anger.  Thank g-d he doesn’t hit me.  He just has to stop being so moody.  He works hard and has a very stressful job.  He always comes home in a bad mood.  I feel like I’m walking on eggshells with him.  Anything I say can set him off.  He walks around mumbling and grumbling to himself all the time.  I HATE it.  Lifemates are supposed to be warm and loving with each other.  My friends in the states tell me all the time that people from Canada are generally more relaxed and pleasant.  When I think of my husband, I can’t understand how they think that.

Carli from Toronto

Misunderstanding in a Lifemates Relationship

I feel like my husband doesn’t understand me.  When a woman is upset and she’s being all nuts, they don’t necessarily want advice or for their lifemates to talk.  Most of the time, she wants to be listened to.  She wants understanding and love.  My husband doesn’t get that.  I’ve told him a million times but it doesn’t register.  He always tries to give me advice and tell me what to do when I’m upset.  Maybe I have to accept the fact that he’s a guy and I’m a girl and no matter how much we know about each other, there are still things we’ll never understand.

Gabriela from Montreal

Bozo Brain

My husband drinks a lot.  We always have at least a twelve pack of beer in the house.  I know beer from Canada is good, but come on.  He works hard all day and I understand that he needs to unwind when he gets home.  He’s a fun drunk.  He laughs and tells hilarious jokes.  He’s also in control of himself and never goes overboard which is why I let it go on this long.  But now the kid is old enough to know the difference and I don’t want him being exposed to that every day of his life.  I don’t mind my lifemate getting drunk every now and then but there has to be a limit.  I’ve spoken to him before about this and he agrees that he needs to cut down but so far, he hasn’t.  He still buys an insane amount of beer and it’s usually gone the next day.  Not to mention the fact that it costs a lot of money to buy twelve to fifteen beers four to five times a week.  We don’t have that kind of money.  I’m surprised we were even able to let it continue this long financially.  I like my husband and at least he’s a pleasant drunk rather than the opposite.  Things have got to change if we want to remain lifemates.