The Nastiest Lifemates Complaints We Have Gotten to Date

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Many people live for years hiding their inner frustration at their lifemates. Husbands hate their wives and wives hate their husbands. Now we see the complaints coming out of the closet. Here is a list of some of the worst lifemates complaints we have gotten since the start of this site.

Bernard from Winnipeg

I Hate My Wife

I hate my wife.  She’s insane.  I wish I never married her, I should have chosen some other lifemates.  She’s not sensitive towards my feelings at all.  She’s just a bitter person in general.  I can’t believe I thought she was one of my lifemates.  It’s weird; she wasn’t like this when we were dating.  Last year, we went on vacation to Canada.  We stayed at a lodge in the woods in northern Toronto.  During this vacation, we went hiking in the woods with the kids where she just said insulting things to and about me all day.  It was horrible because the kids heard everything and eventually joined in.  They were just joking and didn’t realize that their mother was not.  When I confronted her later on, she laughed in my face and called me a “sissy”.  I’ve been dealing with this for eleven years and I finally had enough.  As long as I’m with her, I’m totally miserable.  I have no choice but divorce her. 

Jenny from Toronto

Divorce, Divorce, Divorce

I’m going through a divorce right now.  I married the most horrible person alive.  Every day for fifteen years, all I’ve heard was “shut up, go to hell, wash the dishes, sweep the floors, make me food”.  I was literally like a slave.  He never said thank you for anything and BARELY told me he loved me.  I don’t know how I was able to live like that for so long.  I knew for a long time that divorce was somewhere down the road which is why I saved up my own money to move to Calgary, Canada when we finally hit divorce.  I have many friends there and I love the scenery.  Anyway, I’m happy this terrible lifemates marriage is finally over.  And there’s no way I’m ever letting him have custody over the three kids.  They’re going to stay with their hard working, honest and loveable mother.

Gene from Montreal

A Crazy Woman

My wife is the most manipulative woman ever, I'm sick of these lifemates.  Women are crazy but I never even dreamed that there could possibly be a woman as crazy as my wife.  She always managed to turn every fight around so that I was the bad guy.  I remember one time where she threw my six hundred dollar suit out the window after cutting it up with a pair of scissors.  Her reason was that I wasted six hundred dollars on a bundle of thread and that she hated the color and refused to see me in it.  We had a huge fight and tried getting me to admit that it was my fault.  I understand that lifemates are crazy once a month but I’m lucky if she’s in a good mood once a month.  There was also a time when she took every dish out of the cupboard and three them across the room and broke them just because I forgot to get milk from the store.  Again, her argument was that if I had brought home everything she wanted, this never would have happened.  We had to buy a whole new stock of dishes and glasses for like three hundred dollars.  And she says that I waste my money.  Divorce is definitely in my mind.  If anyone knows a girl for me in Montreal please let me know.

Christie from Toronto

Drugy

My husband had a serious drug problem before we got married.  He went through years of rehab and it took a long time to get over it.  He was addicted to crystal meth and heroin. I met him when he was just finishing his recovery and we stayed close friends.  We finally dated and eventually got engaged.  I told him that if he ever got back into drugs I would divorce him and that would end our lifemates relationship.  We agreed and I was convinced that his drug days were over for good.  Years and years went by until I started noticing some differences in his behavior and an increase in the amount of money he was bringing home.  He started acting weird.  His eyes were always glazed and he always tense and short tempered.  I started getting suspicious and eventually found out that not only did he get back into his drugs and doing more drugs than he did years ago, but he was even dealing.  I was furious and new what I had to do.  We just finalized our divorce a year ago and now my sixteen year old son is doing similar drugs.  I blame my ex husband for this because my son apparently was exposed to it since he was little.  I have so many hateful feelings towards my ex lifemate and if my son doesn’t get better, I’m going to inform the police of his dealing business in Toronto.

Jared from Vancouver

Get Lost

A while ago, my wife and I were at the super market where we bumped into her old boyfriend from high school.  It was really awkward and I felt very uncomfortable.  I saw immediately in his eyes that he still thought about her.  As time went on, I forgot about it until I saw him again in town and then again a week later.  I realized that he moved to my neighborhood which made me worried.  To make a long story short, I found out that he and my wife were spending way too much time together.  A month ago, I came home from work and found the house empty.  With a very bad feeling in my gut, I drove passed his house and saw her car parked in front.  I can’t believe she’s doing this.  I can’t be sure that anything is happening, but I have a feeling that something is.  If that’s the case, she can expect a divorce in a heart beat.  I’ve been extremely angry with her for a while due to the fact that every time I mention to her that I don’t want to ever see them together she just tells me that I can’t tell her who to hang out with.  The guy also has some nerve to hang around a married woman.  Lifemates are not supposed to act like that.

Janette from Toronto

25 years of Being Insulted

My husband and I are also in the middle of a divorce.  He and I have been fighting for 25 years, kind of a nasty lifemates relationship.  We got married here in Canada and just grew to be so bitter and angry with each other.  We recently married off our oldest daughter.  At the wedding, he got up to make a toast.  During his speech, he said the most horrible things about me.  He spoke as if he was joking and everyone thought he was, but I knew he wasn’t.  The next day, two of my good friends came over for coffee.  We spoke about his speech and how insulting it was.  My friends said they were shocked that he could embarrass me like that in public.  They also said that some of the other wives actually believed some of the garbage that came out of his mouth.  That was when I knew we had to get divorced.  25 years of being insulted and belittled was enough for me.  Now that we’re separated and are each searching for new lifemates, I feel so much better about myself.  It’s not normal to feel inferior to the closest person in your life for that long.

Allen from Ottawa

Wife is Working for the Devil

I have a feeling that my wife is working for the devil.  She was sent from hell to my life here in Canada to make my life miserable.  I’ve done stupid things in my life but nothing that deserves this kind of punishment.  Two months ago, my wife threw a frying pan at my head, these lifemates are a misery.  I ended up in the hospital with a concussion.  She said it was an accident and I believe her, but her anger issues are just too much for me.  She also has no respect for me.  Every time I tell her to do something she says no.  She says no even in public, defying me in front of guests, which other people have lifemates like that.  How can a person live like that?  One day a few months ago, my son asked me if he could go play out side.  I knew that his homework wasn’t finished so I told him only after he finished.  He got so upset that he threw a fit.  My wife came downstairs and saw the commotion.  Right in front of me, she picked him up, kissed him, and said “don’t listen to you stupid father.  If you want to go play, then go play”.  She said that right in front of me witch basically made him think that he also doesn’t have to respect me.  I can’t tell you how angry and hurt I was from that.  I knew that saying something to her would have accomplished nothing so I kept it in and walked into my lawyer’s office a week later and demanded a lifemates divorce.  We’re still going through the process, but the worst part is that my son won’t listen to me anymore.  My devil lifemate destroyed all the work I put into him about having to listen to your father.  How am I supposed to fix this hole?